- You will show up clean and well dressed. I dislike foul odors, dirt under the fingernails and halitosis.
- You are expected to make your appointment perfectly on time. If you arrive early, wait in your car. Fifteen minutes late means forfeiture of the session.
- Appointments must be made four hours in advance. To increase your chances of securing a session, it is best to call the day before. There are no exceptions to this.
- Confirmation calls are required at least two hours before play. No confirmation call, no appointment.
- I prefer to be addressed as Mistress or Miss Lilly.
- Be prepared before you call. Have an idea of your interests and hard limits. Make sure you can articulate them to me. I also ask questions about peoples’ experience level and personal habits.
- If your kink is illegal, it won’t be considered.
- Email is my preferred method of communication in the beginning. My contact page has the address.
- Confidentiality and privacy are important. Sing my praises, but never post a play-by-play on a public forum. That’s between us.
- Learn the material on my webpage. It was created for your benefit to answer the most commonly asked questions.

